19 vulnerability questions
For personal / provocative
- 1
What is something you have never told me because you were afraid of how I would react?
- 2
When did you last feel lonely in this relationship?
- 3
What do you think I am wrong about, that I refuse to see?
- 4
What is the kindest thing you have thought about me and never said out loud?
- 5
What part of yourself do you hide from almost everyone?
- 6
When did you last cry, and what was it about?
- 7
What compliment do you struggle to believe when you hear it?
- 8
How connected have you felt to me this week?
- Very close
- Fine
- A bit distant
- Genuinely disconnected
- 9
What is a way you have changed since we met that you are not sure I have noticed?
- 10
When you imagine me hearing your worst thought about myself, what do you hope I would say?
- 11
What do you pretend not to care about that you actually care about a great deal?
- 12
What is the kindest thing anyone has done for you that you never managed to thank them for properly?
- 13
What do you worry I would think less of you for, if you said it out loud?
- 14
When did you last feel genuinely proud of yourself, and did you tell anyone?
- 15
What is a compliment you have always wanted from me that I have never given?
- 16
Where in your life do you feel most like yourself?
- With you
- With old friends
- Alone
- At work
- With family
- Nowhere lately
- 17
What is something you are nervous about that is coming up soon?
- 18
What does your inner critic say most often?
- 19
What do you need to hear on a bad day, in the exact words?
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