8 values questions
For personal / provocative
- 1
What is a thing we agree on that most couples do not?
- 2
Which of these matters most to you in how we live?
- Honesty
- Generosity
- Adventure
- Security
- Kindness
- Freedom
- 3
What is a value of yours that I do not share, and how do you feel about that?
- 4
What would you want us to be known for, as a couple?
- 5
When did we last act against our own values, together?
- 6
What do you judge other couples for that you worry we do too?
- 7
What is a value you learned the hard way?
- 8
What is something you would not do even if I begged?
Try answering these at the same time
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