16 siblings questions

For family & friends

1. 1

   What is the nickname you had for each other as children, and does it still work?

2. 2

   Who got away with more, and how?

3. 3

   What did you fight about most as children, and what do you fight about now?

4. 4

   Which of these best describes your role growing up?

   • The responsible one
   • The peacemaker
   • The wild one
   • The invisible one
   • The favourite, allegedly
5. 5

   What is a memory of us that only the two of us would remember?

6. 6

   What did our parents get right that you only appreciated later?

7. 7

   What do you think our parents got wrong, and did it land on us differently?

8. 8

   How did your view of me change when we became adults?

9. 9

   What do you envy about how I was treated?

10. 10

    What do I do that reminds you of our mother, or father, and is that good or bad?

11. 11

    What is a hurt from childhood between us that we have never actually talked about?

12. 12

    When our parents are gone, what do you hope happens between us?

13. 13

    What would you want me to know if you were struggling and could not say it?

14. 14

    What is the thing you are proudest of me for?

15. 15

    What is a decision about our parents' care or money that we should talk about before we have to?

16. 16

    What do you know about our family that I might not?

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