8 self questions

For personal / provocative

  1. 1

    What do you say to yourself when you look in the mirror?

  2. 2

    What part of yourself do you like most, and does it show at home?

  3. 3

    Which of these do you need to feel like yourself?

    • Time alone
    • Making something
    • Moving my body
    • Being with my people
    • Being useful
  4. 4

    What did you give up to be with me, and would you again?

  5. 5

    Who were you before us, and how much of that person do I get to meet?

  6. 6

    What do you want to become that you have not told me because it might not fit us?

  7. 7

    What is something you are good at that our life gives you no room for?

  8. 8

    How do you want me to support who you are becoming, not who you were?

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