16 reflection questions
For family & friends
- 1
What is the best advice you have ever been given?
- 2
What do you think people misunderstand about you?
- 3
What has changed your mind recently?
- 4
What is something you have got better at without noticing?
- 5
What do you wish you had said to someone who is no longer here?
- 6
What did you need from this group of people at your lowest point, and did you get it?
- 7
What is something you have forgiven one of us for that we never knew needed forgiving?
- 8
What role did you get given in this family or group, and does it still fit?
- 9
What is a way you have changed that the people here still do not see?
- 10
What do you envy about someone in this group, and what does it tell you about what you want?
- 11
What do you think this group would say about you when you are not in the room, and would it be fair?
- 12
Which of these do you find hardest to say to the people in this group?
- I need help
- I was wrong
- I love you
- I am not okay
- No
- 13
What is something you are quietly working on that you would like us to ask about?
- 14
What has changed your mind in the last year?
- 15
What is a compliment you got once and still think about?
- 16
What is something you know about one of us that you think they would be surprised you noticed?
Try answering these at the same time
Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought.
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