8 planning together questions
For personal / provocative
- 1
What is one thing we should spend money on this year that we keep saying no to?
- 2
Which of these should we sort out first?
- Where we live
- Money
- Family time
- Our health
- Our social life
- A holiday
- 3
What is a plan of ours that you have quietly given up on?
- 4
What is something you want in the next five years that we have not planned for?
- 5
Who is the planner, who is the dreamer, and does it work?
- 6
What do you want to protect in our life, whatever else changes?
- 7
What decision did we make together that you now think was mostly mine, or mostly yours?
- 8
What would you want us to do if we had to start over somewhere new?
Try answering these at the same time
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