16 past questions

For personal / provocative

1. 1

   What is something from your past that still shapes how you behave today?

2. 2

   Which version of yourself do you miss?

3. 3

   What did you learn about love from the people who raised you?

4. 4

   What is a decision you would make differently if you could?

5. 5

   What did you first notice about me?

6. 6

   Which of your parents' patterns do you catch yourself repeating with me?

7. 7

   What did you learn about love before you met me that turned out to be wrong?

8. 8

   What is a version of yourself from before we met that you sometimes miss?

9. 9

   What is something you were told as a child that you are still trying to unlearn?

10. 10

    Which of our early days would you relive exactly, and which would you handle differently?

11. 11

    What is a rule you had growing up that seems absurd now?

12. 12

    What did you think being an adult would be like, and what is it actually like?

13. 13

    What is a photo of yourself you love, and what was happening?

14. 14

    Which of these best describes your teenage years?

    • Loud and social
    • Quiet and bookish
    • Sporty
    • Rebellious
    • Mostly waiting for them to end
15. 15

    What is the first thing you noticed about me, honestly?

16. 16

    What is a decision from your twenties that you would defend to anyone?

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