15 old friends questions
For family & friends
- 1
How did we meet, in your version of the story?
- 2
What is the dumbest thing we ever did together, and would you do it again?
- 3
What did I say or do years ago that you still bring up?
- 4
Which of these is our friendship built on?
- Shared history
- Making each other laugh
- Showing up in a crisis
- Having nothing to prove
- Habit, honestly
- 5
What is a phase of your life I was not around for that I should hear about?
- 6
How have I changed since we met, in a way you like, and in a way you do not?
- 7
What do you still assume about me from when we were younger that is probably out of date?
- 8
When did our friendship nearly not survive, and what saved it?
- 9
What do you not tell me any more that you used to?
- 10
What would you want me to do if you disappeared into a relationship, a job, or a bad patch?
- 11
What is something you did for me that I never properly acknowledged?
- 12
What do you want this friendship to look like at seventy?
- 13
What do you think I would say is your best quality, and are you right?
- 14
What is a habit of mine you have learned to work around?
- 15
Which one of us has the worse memory of the early days, and what do you think really happened?
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