18 long haul questions
For personal / provocative
- 1
What do you know now about marriage that you would tell us on our wedding day?
- 2
What is a habit of ours that has quietly kept us together?
- 3
Which year of ours would you least want to repeat, and what got us through it?
- 4
What has stayed exactly the same about you since we met?
- 5
What is a thing we used to fight about that we simply stopped fighting about?
- 6
What do you know about me that nobody else alive knows?
- 7
What do you assume I already know that I have never actually been told?
- 8
What have you stopped expecting from me, and was that wise or sad?
- 9
What do you want the next ten years to have that the last ten did not?
- 10
What are you afraid of about growing old with me, and what are you looking forward to?
- 11
What did we get right that our friends did not?
- 12
Which of these describes us most days?
- Best friends
- A good team
- Comfortable
- Roommates lately
- Still surprising each other
- 13
What is a version of me from years ago that you miss, and one you are glad is gone?
- 14
What conversation have we been putting off for years?
- 15
What would you want to say to me if you knew it was our last ordinary evening?
- 16
What tradition of ours will you keep if I go first?
- 17
What is something we have never done that it is not too late for?
- 18
What is the last thing I did that reminded you why you chose me?
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