12 intimacy questions
For personal / provocative
- 1
What do you wish I knew about what you like, without having to say it?
- 2
When do you feel most desired by me?
- 3
What is something about intimacy you learned late, or wrongly?
- 4
What gets in the way of closeness for you: tiredness, stress, self-consciousness, resentment, or routine?
- 5
What is a way of being close that has nothing to do with sex that you want more of?
- 6
What do you think I assume about what you want, that is wrong?
- 7
Which of these would you like more of, honestly?
- Being initiated with
- Initiating
- Slowness
- Playfulness
- Talking about it at all
- 8
When did you last feel self-conscious with me, and what would have helped?
- 9
What do you want me to know about your body this year that is different from last?
- 10
What did you learn about intimacy from how your parents were with each other?
- 11
What would you want me to do if I noticed you pulling away?
- 12
What is something we tried once and never talked about again?
Try answering these at the same time
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