12 housemates questions

For family & friends

  1. 1

    What is your rule about the last of the milk, and does anyone respect it?

  2. 2

    What is a noise in this house that only you seem to hear?

  3. 3

    Which of these is the real division of labour here?

    • Fair
    • One person does most of it
    • Rota that nobody follows
    • Chaos with occasional guilt
    • What labour
  4. 4

    What is your favourite thing about living here that you would not admit to the landlord?

  5. 5

    What do you need in the house to feel it is yours too?

  6. 6

    What is a thing one of us does that you have been meaning to mention nicely?

  7. 7

    When you want to be alone, how do you signal it, and do we notice?

  8. 8

    What is a house tradition we should start before someone moves out?

  9. 9

    What do you tell people about living with us?

  10. 10

    What would make you leave, honestly?

  11. 11

    What is the kindest thing a housemate has done for you here?

  12. 12

    What do you think the house thinks of you?

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