12 home & family questions
For personal / provocative
- 1
Which household job do you quietly think you do better than me?
- 2
What is your ideal Sunday at home, hour by hour?
- 3
Which of these is our home most in need of?
- A clear-out
- Better light
- Somewhere to sit outside
- A room that is just for us
- Fewer things that beep
- 4
What is a family tradition from your childhood you want to keep, and one you want to drop?
- 5
What do you find hardest about my family, and what do you think they find hardest about you?
- 6
How do you think we divide the invisible work, the remembering and planning, and is it fair?
- 7
If we have or raise children, what do you most want them to learn from watching us?
- 8
What kind of parent do you fear becoming?
- 9
What has changed about us since home became busier, that you would like to protect?
- 10
Where do you feel the pull between your family of origin and us, and which way do you lean?
- 11
Which chore would you pay to never do again?
- Laundry
- Dishes
- Bins
- Cleaning the bathroom
- Admin and forms
- 12
What do you want more of at home: quiet, people, light, order, or mess?
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