8 hard things questions
For family & friends
- 1
What is something hard you are carrying that this group could actually help with?
- 2
What was the hardest year of your life, and who got you through it?
- 3
How do you want people here to treat you when you are struggling?
- Ask me directly
- Distract me
- Just show up
- Give me space and check back
- Feed me
- 4
What do you find hardest to ask this group for?
- 5
What is a fear you have about one of us that you have never voiced?
- 6
What grief are you still carrying that you think the group assumes is finished?
- 7
What is something you have never told this group because you decided they could not handle it?
- 8
If you were in real trouble tonight, who here would you call first, and why not the others?
Try answering these at the same time
Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought.
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