10 growth questions
For personal / provocative
- 1
What are you trying to get better at this year, and how could I help without nagging?
- 2
What is a habit you want to break that you would rather I did not comment on?
- 3
What have you been reading, listening to or thinking about that has shifted something in you?
- 4
Which of us has changed more since we met, and in what direction?
- 5
What part of your character do you least want me to stop challenging?
- 6
What is a truth about yourself you only learned because of this relationship?
- 7
Where do you think we have grown lazy with each other?
- 8
What do you want to be able to say about yourself in five years that you cannot say now?
- 9
What is something you got better at this year that nobody noticed?
- 10
What are you reading, watching or listening to that you would recommend to me?
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