8 group decisions questions
For family & friends
- 1
What is a decision this group needs to make that nobody wants to raise?
- 2
Which of these is how we usually decide things?
- The loudest wins
- The organiser decides
- We vote
- We avoid deciding
- One person always gives in
- 3
On the decision in front of us, what do you want, before considering anyone else?
- 4
What would you be willing to give up so this works for everyone?
- 5
Who is not in the room whose view we should hear?
- 6
What is the version of this decision you could live with, even if it is not your first choice?
- 7
What are you afraid will happen if we decide this wrongly?
- 8
What do you need to hear from the others to accept a decision you did not want?
Try answering these at the same time
Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought.
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