9 getting married questions

For personal / provocative

  1. 1

    What is your dream for the wedding that you have not said because of the cost?

  2. 2

    Which of these is the point of the day, for you?

    • The vows
    • The party
    • The family together
    • The photos
    • Being married by the end of it
  3. 3

    Who do you dread at the wedding, and how do we handle them?

  4. 4

    What do you want our vows to promise that the standard ones do not?

  5. 5

    What are you afraid marriage will change?

  6. 6

    What does your family expect from this wedding that you do not want?

  7. 7

    What do you want our marriage to have that your parents' did not?

  8. 8

    What is one thing we should agree before the wedding that couples usually leave until after?

  9. 9

    What is the last thing you will say to me before the ceremony, if you get the chance?

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