22 future questions
For personal / provocative, family & friends
- 1
Where do you see us in five years, honestly rather than hopefully?
- 2
What is something you want that you think I would say no to?
- 3
What would you do with a year off and no obligations?
- 4
What are you most afraid of about growing old?
- 5
What would improve our relationship most right now?
- More time together
- Better communication
- Less stress from outside
- More independence
- More physical intimacy
- 6
What is something you have always wanted to try?
- 7
Where should this group go together, if we could go anywhere?
- 8
What do you hope is different about your life in three years?
- 9
What is one thing you would like us to do more of this month?
- 10
What does a good life look like to you at seventy, and where am I in it?
- 11
What is a fear about our future that you keep to yourself so as not to worry me?
- 12
If one of us had to give up something big for the other's dream, how do you think we would decide?
- 13
What would you want me to do in the first year if you died before me?
- 14
What are you most afraid our relationship could become?
- Comfortable but distant
- Two people managing a household
- Resentful
- Repeating my parents
- I am not afraid of that
- 15
What is one thing you would want the youngest person here to know that nobody told you?
- 16
What do you want to be remembered for by the people in this group, specifically?
- 17
What is a place you want us to go before we are too old to enjoy it?
- 18
What is a skill you want us to learn together, even badly?
- 19
In one year, what would you like to be true about our weekends?
- 20
What do you want our home to feel like to a guest, in three words?
- 21
What is one thing you want to do together before the year is out?
- 22
Where do you see this group in ten years, honestly?
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