8 fairness questions
For personal / provocative
- 1
Which chore do you think I do badly on purpose?
- 2
Who carries the mental load in our house, and what would you hand over first?
- 3
What do you do for us that you have never been thanked for?
- 4
Which of these feels least fair right now?
- Housework
- Money
- Time off
- Emotional support
- Family duties
- It all feels fair
- 5
If we swapped jobs at home for a week, what would each of us learn?
- 6
What do you keep score of, even though you say you do not?
- 7
When have you felt taken for granted, and did I ever find out?
- 8
What is a thing you do more of because I am worse at it, and is that fine?
Try answering these at the same time
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