9 empty nest questions

For personal / provocative

  1. 1

    What are you looking forward to about the house being quieter?

  2. 2

    What are you afraid we will find when the children are gone?

  3. 3

    What did we used to do before children that we could do again?

  4. 4

    Which of these do you want the next chapter to have?

    • Travel
    • A smaller house
    • New friends
    • A project together
    • More separate lives, kindly
  5. 5

    Who are you, apart from being a parent?

  6. 6

    What do you want our relationship with our grown children to be, and are we heading there?

  7. 7

    What have the parenting years cost us that we should now repair?

  8. 8

    What do you want to learn now that there is time?

  9. 9

    What is a habit from busy years that we can finally drop?

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