16 desire questions

For personal / provocative

1. 1

   What is something you need more of that you have never asked for?

2. 2

   What makes you feel most wanted?

3. 3

   What is something you have been curious about but never brought up?

4. 4

   When do you feel most attracted to me?

5. 5

   What is a small thing I do that means more to you than I probably realise?

6. 6

   What do you want more of from me physically that you have found hard to say?

7. 7

   When do you feel most wanted by me, and when do you feel least?

8. 8

   What is a small daily thing that would make you feel loved, and why haven't you asked for it?

9. 9

   What is something you daydream about doing together that you assume is unrealistic?

10. 10

    What do you need after a hard day that you have never spelled out for me?

11. 11

    Which of these do you most need from me right now?

    • To be listened to without advice
    • More touch
    • More time alone together
    • To be told what I am doing right
    • Help with something practical
12. 12

    What is the most attractive thing I do without trying?

13. 13

    Which of these is your love language, really?

    • Words
    • Time
    • Touch
    • Gifts
    • Things done for you
14. 14

    What is a date you would plan for me if money and time were no object?

15. 15

    What did you find attractive about me that surprised you?

16. 16

    When do you feel closest to me: talking, touching, doing, or resting?

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