12 decisions questions
For personal / provocative
- 1
What decision are we circling that we should just make?
- 2
On the decision in front of us, what is your gut saying, before any reasons?
- 3
What would you choose if you knew I would be fine with either?
- 4
What are you afraid we will regret, whichever way we go?
- 5
Which of these is doing the talking for you right now?
- Money
- Family
- Fear
- Ambition
- Tiredness
- What other people will think
- 6
What would the wisest person you know say we should do?
- 7
What do you need from me to be at peace with a decision you did not want?
- 8
If we do nothing, what happens in a year?
- 9
What is the smallest version of this decision we could try first?
- 10
Whose voice, other than ours, is loudest in this decision?
- 11
What is a way we could move or work that would suit you better than now?
- 12
What do you want that you have talked yourself out of wanting?
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