10 dealbreakers questions

For dating

  1. 1

    What is a small thing that would put you off someone?

  2. 2

    Which of these matters most to you in a partner?

    • Kindness
    • Humour
    • Ambition
    • Honesty
    • Calm
    • Curiosity
  3. 3

    What is something you will not compromise on?

  4. 4

    What is a green flag you look for early?

  5. 5

    What is a red flag you have ignored before?

  6. 6

    What do you think you are like to date, honestly?

  7. 7

    What is a difference between people that you think is fine, and one that you think is not?

  8. 8

    Which of these would end it for you?

    • Unkindness to a waiter
    • Lying about small things
    • Not being curious about me
    • Different plans for life
    • Bad with money
  9. 9

    What is something you need in a relationship that you have learned the hard way?

  10. 10

    What would you want me to know about you before this goes further?

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