8 confidence questions

For personal / provocative

  1. 1

    What do you think I find sexy about you that you do not see?

  2. 2

    Which of these do you need to hear more of?

    • That I am attractive
    • That I am capable
    • That I am kind
    • That I am enough
    • That you chose right
  3. 3

    What do you do well that you shrug off when I mention it?

  4. 4

    When do you feel most confident with me, and when least?

  5. 5

    What has knocked your confidence this year that I did not fully notice?

  6. 6

    What do you want to be braver about in our relationship?

  7. 7

    What have I done that made you feel small, even by accident?

  8. 8

    What compliment from me would you believe?

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