10 boundaries questions
For personal / provocative
- 1
What is a boundary you have never told me you needed?
- 2
How much time alone do you actually want, as opposed to what you ask for?
- 3
What is something I do that you have quietly tolerated?
- 4
What do you need to be alone for, that I sometimes take personally?
- 5
What is something about my family you have held back from saying?
- 6
What do I share about you with other people that you would rather I kept between us?
- 7
What do you need on a Sunday evening to feel ready for the week?
- 8
When you say you are fine, how often are you?
- Almost always
- Usually
- About half the time
- Rarely
- It depends on the tone
- 9
What is something you would like me to ask before doing, rather than after?
- 10
Which of my questions do you find hardest to answer, and why?
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