12 appreciation questions
For personal / provocative
- 1
What did I do this week that you appreciated and did not mention?
- 2
What is something I am good at that I do not give myself credit for?
- 3
What do your friends say about me that you agree with?
- 4
What is a habit of mine that makes your life easier?
- 5
Which of these do I do best, honestly?
- Listening
- Making you laugh
- Getting things done
- Calming you down
- Showing up when it counts
- 6
What is one thing I did early on that made you think this could last?
- 7
What do I do when you are ill or low that you never want me to stop doing?
- 8
What have you watched me get better at?
- 9
When did I surprise you by being braver than you expected?
- 10
What is something I have taught you without knowing it?
- 11
What did I do this month that you want more of?
- 12
What is something you rely on me for that you would struggle to do alone?
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